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Relationship Confidence

From each of the sets of statements below, select which one is most like you:
I'm happy to move beyond my comfort zone and let the people and world around me guide me
I prefer to keep myself to myself and focus on my improving my life as it is today.
Life's short, I make the most of every opporutunity to talk to people, each step brings me closer to the one.
I often say I'm too busy to meet someone, when I probably could make more of a effort.
Dates are about being open minded and curious. It's a great date if we've both made each other feel good.
I often get dissapointed by dates, people treat it like a tick box exercise. I just want to feel the spark.

Love is about taking risks, I like trusting people, I feel that people like to look out for each other.

I don't trust people easily, most people are just looking out for themselves.

Deep down I feel unappreciated for the amount of effort I've put into relationships.
Deep down I feel I am valued and loved in relationships.
It's important to understand where others are coming from in relationships.
It's important to explain where I coming from in relationships.
I like sharing views with someone so that we can develop a joint understanding.
I'm clear in what I'm doing and where I stand, I don't like discussing things.
Good relationships are built by recognising a difference and explaining what's important to me.
Good relationships are build by recognising a difference and asking someone what's important to them.
I don't like conflict, but sometimes you have tell someone why something is right or wrong.
I don't like misunderstandings, I'm happy to say sorry first and focus on what we both want rather than right or wrong.
I try and make sure I understand correctly.
I try and make sure I'm being understood correctly.
I tend to stay quiet and sometimes feel cynical in relationships. Too much talking causes trouble.
I perfer to reach out and make sure people feel appreciated even for small things
When someone's upset, I leave them alone; if they want to talk they'll ask.
When someone's upset, I reassure them so they have the confidence to open up.
I always make an extra effort support the people I love without being asked.
It's 'each to their own' in most relationships. I look after myself, no-one's ever been there to suport me.
All relationships evenutally lead to conflict, misunderstanding or bad feeling.
Relationships bring out the best in people; love, respect and postivity helps you rise above any issues.
Most of my calls and texts are about making someone I care about feel loved.
Most of my calls and texts in relationships are about keeping the peace.